The Beginner’s Guide to Small Group Leadership

Introduction: your Asked to Lead a Small Group.

Why You Were Chosen

Your youth pastor sees the work God is doing in your life and wants you to share what the Lord has taught you. Remember, God can use anyone to convey His message. Don’t feel pressured; instead, immerse yourself in the Word and let it guide you.

Getting Started

Preparing Your Heart

As you prepare for your first study, you might feel stressed. You could be flipping through your Bible, reading random passages, and finding nothing that resonates. Here are a few basic tools to help you get ready:

1. Pray for Wisdom: Ask God for guidance.
2. Reflect: Consider these questions: 
   • What has God been teaching me?
   • What topics are relevant for my group?
   • What am I passionate about lately?

Using the S.O.A.P. Method

Let Scripture impact you before consulting commentaries. Use the S.O.A.P. method to dig deeper into a passage:

• Scripture: Select a relevant passage. (No more then a Chapter, Focus on a few verses)
• Observation: Note 3-5 key ideas, themes, events that stick out to you.
• Application: Consider how these observations apply to your life.
• Prayer: Spend time praying over your insights.

After you’ve done this, share your findings with your group. Encourage them to make observations and discuss applications together.

overcoming fear

Think About Your Audience

It’s common to feel nervous before speaking. Remember, your audience is rooting for you. When you were in youth group, you focused on the discussion, not your leader's nerves. They felt the same pressure but inspired you.

Shift Your Perspective

When you feel anxiety building, simplify your thoughts. Focus on your purpose: serving others. Consider what your audience needs to hear. Remember, it’s a conversation, not a performance.

Key Considerations For Leaders

Providing Direction

People look for direction in group settings. They appreciate a leader who keeps conversations structured. Maintain a balance that allows for spontaneous discussions while guiding the group.

Fostering a Spiritual Environment

Participants seek to encounter Jesus, not just a social experience. Ensure your group provides spiritual nourishment. People will remember your love and care long after the session ends.

Conclusion

Challenge: Preaching Roulette

For a fun exercise, gather some friends and grab a Bible and a timer. With your eyes closed, open the Bible to a random page and point to a verse. Set a 1-minute timer to read it, then prepare a 2-minute message. After you share, let your friends give feedback before passing it on to the next person. This challenge helps you practice speaking and developing ideas on the fly.